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The Three Lists That Keep Me Sane

September 17, 2025

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the three lists that keep me sane

I have a friend who loves to talk about how nobody works as much as she does. She works 30 hours/ week.

I would love to invite her into the brain of a business owner, not in a creepy Black Mirror way, but for a better understanding of the fact that business owners work all the time.

For example:

  • At 3 am, my brain looks like the inside of a blender after making a green smoothie.
  • At 8 am, it’s a fully operational carnival before the guests arrive.
  • By 4 pm, it’s the aftermath of a hurricane.
  • And by 10 pm? It looks like a toddler ate spaghetti bolognese in my brain.

Welcome to founder life.

And while your head will never stop spinning, there are many ways to calm the chaos. My favorite is keeping three lists. (Only three. Any more and it’s back to chaos.)

1. List One: Ideas for Later

Founders get 1,000 ideas before breakfast; 10,000 if they shower or work out.

The trick is knowing that not every idea deserves your full attention today.

This list is where I park all the “what if we tried…” thoughts that pop up in the shower, on the treadmill, or in the carpool line. By writing them down, I stop chasing shiny objects in real time and give myself permission to revisit them when I have actual bandwidth.

For me, this is usually during brainstorming sessions with my team, during warm-ups at one of my kids’ games, or, ideally, while sitting by the pool.

2. Tasks With Due Dates

This one is obvious, but it’s also the one we neglect first.

The founder’s brain loves urgency, which means the everyday “due today” tasks compete with “someday we should totally build an app.”

Tasks with due dates keep the trains moving. They’re not glamorous, but they stop the chaos from eating your business alive.

And there’s a flag on these tasks for when they’re delegated. If that happens, they stay on the list, but the due date is more of a “follow up by this date.” This is important for your founder’s brain. You should always be working on the business, not in the business, so when you delegate, your due dates are more of a “Check in with John about Task X” than actually doing Task X.

If it doesn’t move the business toward your ideal client or long-term growth, it should be outsourced, automated, or delegated.

3. Campaigns That Need to Be Broken Down

This is the sneaky one. Big campaigns feel exciting, until you realize “Launch a webinar” isn’t actually a task. It’s ten tasks. Maybe fifty.

This list keeps me honest. Whenever I write down a campaign, I break it into steps, and each one becomes a task with a due date. AI is a big help with this!

Suddenly, it stops being overwhelming and starts being manageable.

Suddenly, campaigns get done in a reasonable timeframe.

So, Campaigns feed into Tasks With A Due Date, and,  Ideas feeds into Campaigns, to be built into something with a beginning, a middle, and a successful goal.

Why This Matters for B2B Founders

These three lists will work no matter where you are in business, or even if you feel like you’re floundering.

If you’re working on your business, these lists show you bottlenecks, patterns, and opportunities. If you’re buried in your business, the lists pull you out long enough to breathe.

The goal isn’t perfection, it’s sanity. Because when your brain looks like a spaghetti bolognese explosion, clarity isn’t just helpful. It’s survival.

Final Thought

Running a business will always be messy. The difference between founders who grow and founders who burn out is the ability to pause, sort the chaos, and focus on what matters.

For me, that’s three lists. For you, it might be something else. But the takeaway is simple: don’t let the hurricane in your head run the company.

👉 Want help breaking the chaos into a solid, implementable strategy? That’s what I do.

Let’s build the systems that keep your marketing and growth moving forward, without the 3 am blender brain. Let’s chat: www.abaskmarketing.com/schedule

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